Start where you are. Build what matters.The Stress-Free CEO is a weekly newsletter created for women who are building businesses on their own terms. You'll find clear strategies, supportive advice, and practical tools to help you move forward with confidence. No pressure. No hype. Just the guidance you need to grow a business that feels right for you. Let’s build something meaningful together.
Remembering Who You Are
What to Do When You Need a Confidence BoostHi Reader,
Author’s Note: There are moments when even the most capable women forget who they are. This is a story about losing confidence, rediscovering it, and remembering my own worth. There was a period of time when I felt lost. My confidence was at an all-time low. Everything around me seemed to reinforce the idea that I wasn’t being valued. Opportunities weren’t panning out the way I hoped. The world felt loud, critical, and quick to remind me where I fell short. At the time, I thought the answer was to find a new job. I figured that a new challenge might bring back the spark I’d lost. So I hired someone to help me update my résumé. I expected a quick transaction, send over my old file, get back a cleaner version, and move on. But she didn’t just ask for my résumé. She asked to talk. For an hour, she walked me through my experiences, asking about the projects I’d led, the problems I’d solved, and the things I was most proud of. She wanted to understand not just what I had done but what it meant. When she finished with my résumé, she sent it to me, and my entire lack of confidence changed. Seeing my career through someone else’s eyes reminded me of everything I had forgotten, the challenges I’d faced, the progress I’d made, and the skills I had quietly built along the way. Reading my résumé, I felt very proud of all the things I had accomplished. That experience reminded me how easy it is to lose sight of who we are when life doesn’t go according to plan. We start measuring ourselves by what hasn’t worked out instead of everything we’ve already overcome. But sometimes, all it takes to find your footing again is a fresh perspective and a gentle reminder of your own worth. If you need a boost of confidence, here are a few things I recommend:
Confidence doesn’t appear out of nowhere. It grows when you stop chasing perfection and start recognizing the person you’ve already become and what you’ve accomplished.
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The Stress-free CEO
Start where you are. Build what matters.The Stress-Free CEO is a weekly newsletter created for women who are building businesses on their own terms. You'll find clear strategies, supportive advice, and practical tools to help you move forward with confidence. No pressure. No hype. Just the guidance you need to grow a business that feels right for you. Let’s build something meaningful together.
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